Not sure what to write in a Birthday card? You are not alone. A lot of people struggle with eloquence when personalizing a card for a family member, best friend, acquaintance or even a near stranger.
Others, however, never seem to have any problem. What is the difference? The latter has confidence, and most likely the latter has a formula. This article will give you a quick and easy formula to write great Birthday Card messages. It will also direct you to resources to find pre-written Birthday messages.
1. WRITE THE GREETING: A perfect greeting is simply, “Happy Birthday BOB!”
Variations include:”HAPPY 30TH BIRTHDAY BOB!” “Happy Birthday” or “It’s your Birthday”
2.DECIDE THE TONE OF THE MESSAGE: You are not sure exactly what to write in the birthday card, but you should decide the tone of it.
Most card companies divide cards into categories of funny, sentimental, cute, faith. You can further divide the tone into formal/informal. Making this decision will guide the rest of your writing and choosing process.
3. DECIDE YOUR ORIGINALITY – Are you going to write the message yourself (by following the below formula) or would you prefer to use a pre-written message?
If you prefer to use a pre-written message go to the links in the resource section below. There are some great resources!
If you want to try this yourself, continue reading.
I want to assure you, “You can do it!!”
**Although this format does not work as well with humorous cards. For cards with humor, I suggest you go to the links or use your own witty humor. Just be careful that it matches the recipient’s humor and the humor of those around you in appropriateness.
4. GIVE AN I HOPE STATEMENT – After your Happy Birthday introduction, it is time for your “I hope statement”.
This statement will express your hopes for this person in the following year. Various formats include:
“I hope your year is filled with ____________” (joy, blessings, so many good things you can’t even count them, laughter, inspiration, etc.)
“May your year be _________”
“I wish for you ___________”
**Fill in the blanks with answers which match your feelings for the person and the tone of your card. Do NOT worry about being eloquent, just be honest. What do you hope this new year brings for them. Try to stay away from objects (such as a new job), instead you can say prosperity. So, skip the object, go to the principle.
If you do not know the person very well, you can say, “I hope you have a wonderful day”
5. ADD THE OPTIONAL “YOU DESERVE IT” – If you wish your recipient joy and feel that they deserve it and are comfortable with writing this, put in the sentence. It makes the message more personal and makes the recipient feel very good.
6. NEXT, SHARE A MEMORY & CHARACTER STATEMENT – Whether you know the person well or very little, attempt to share a memory and back it up with positive statement about his/her character.
Memories can range from: “I still remember when we were little and used to climb up onto the tree house. You have always been a good friend!”
or
“I remember when you first became my supervisor. I was so impressed with your sharp dress and kind nature.”
7. NOW TIE YOUR MEMORY IN WITH THE NEW YEAR – Now you will want to give a statement that ties your memory in with the new year.
“I still remember when we were little and used to climb up onto the tree house. You have always been a good friend! I look forward to the memories we will make in this next year!”
or
“I remember when you first became my supervisor. I was so impressed with your sharp dress and kind nature. I am looking forward to getting to know you better this year.”
8. REITERATE YOUR BIRTHDAY WISH WITH A LITTLE DIFFERENT WORDING:
“Have a wonderful Birthday, Bob.”
“Have an amazing day.”
“Enjoy your Birthday to the best of your ability”
“You only turn 40 once”
9. SIGN OFF YOUR LETTER APPROPRIATELY -
This may mean simply writing your name, or using the following: Love, Yours Truly, Sincerely, etc.
10. PUT IT ALL TOGETHER – Now you have been given the tools to know what to write in a Birthday card. Here are some samples of formal and informal birthday messages following this format to make the whole idea more fluid.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BOB!!
I hope you have the best year you have ever had. You deserve it! Remember when we used to go running together around the pond? You are the fastest person I have ever run with.
Maybe this year I will be able to catch up with you. You are a year older! Have a great Birthday!
David
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOM!
I hope for you that each day of this 56th year will be filled with happiness, love and joy. You deserve it! I will always remember the years that you stayed home with me and the sacrifices you made. You are an amazing woman.
I look forward to another year of getting to understand you better as a person. Have an amazing Birthday.
Love your devoted daughter.